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What do you think is the ideal age for men in online dating?

20? 30? 40?

No – according to a 2018 study in the Journal of Science Advances…

It’s 50 years old.

In today’s article, you’ll discover ten mistakes older guys make trying to look young.

Make sure to read to the end, because you’ll also learn what that study found about the peak attractiveness age for women. Guys… it was brutal.

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Mistake 1. Trying To Look Younger

Here’s a better idea: embrace your age. Doesn’t ‘I want to look young’ feel a little depressing – like you’re faking something?

Now how does it feel when you say, ‘I want to look strong… I want to look healthy… I want to look successful’?

Yep – those are all things you can truly be. Far more easily than many young guys who spend their nights drinking cheap beer and their days struggling to make rent.

Now here comes mistake #2 – hold on to your hats…

Mistake 2.  Still Wearing That Baseball Cap

The straw panama in action. Now that’s better than a baseball cap.

Yeah – it’s time to STOP holding on to THAT hat.

Unless you’re actually going to the game to support your team… it’s time to upgrade your headwear.

Hot weather? Sun in your eyes? Look for a classic wide-brimmed hat like a straw panama.

Cold weather? Try an insulated flat cap. You can even get one with flaps to cover your ears.

And if you’re wearing that baseball cap because you don’t want to deal with your hair… that takes us to the next point.

Mistake 3. Thinking That Haircut Still Makes You Look Young


Click here for a full infographic guide to the most attractive men’s hairstyles.

Maybe you’ve been going to the same barber for years… maybe you haven’t been to a barber for years.

Level up your hair game by going to the best stylist in your area.

Take some pride in your hair and have fun with a new style. If you’ve got longer hair try a shorter hairstyle to make your hair look thicker.

If you’re losing hair consider shaving it off – studies show you’ll look more attractive and more dominant. Or use hair products specifically designed for men with thinning hair.

Don’t want to go with the bald look? Then look at your options for treatment or a hair transplant. Take control of your hair.

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Mistake 4. Partying Like You’re 20

Next mistake older guys make trying to look young? They try to keep up with those 20-year-olds – drinking and partying all night.

Guys – time is going to catch up with you. Your body needs more rest.

If you want to look good, you’ve got to take care of yourself.

That means getting enough sleep and focusing on your diet, exercise, and skincare.

Mistake 5. Wearing Running Shoes To Look Young

blue suede sneakers

The next mistake older guys make trying to look young? Wearing their running shoes everywhere.

That’s not working for you.

Invest in some good casual footwear – like a simple white sneaker. Or if you’re worried about dirt, go with a simple black.

For an extra touch of style look at different fabrics like suede or perforated leather.

There are tons of options out there for casual shoes. Save your running shoes for running.

Mistake 6. Wearing The Wrong Jeans

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When you’re in your 20s you’re probably in great shape. You can get away with some weird-ass jean cuts without – well – making your ass look weird.

As you age your body naturally changes. You need to make sure that you’re wearing jeans that work for your body type NOW.

For most older guys this is going to mean no skinny jeans – and definitely no baggy jeans.

You should probably skip the rhinestones on your back pockets too.

When it comes to distressed jeans, some older guys can pull it off if they know what they’re doing – but that’s more for the fashion-forward.

Mistake 7. Wearing Graphic Tees To Look Young

If you’re an older guy trying to look young by wearing graphic tees with funny off-color sayings – ask yourself this.

What’s your real goal and message in life?

Are you trying to achieve greatness? Get that company off the ground? Become the best man you can be? Be a great father and set an example?

When you wear something like that – you are NOT sending the message you want to send.

Besides – graphic tees don’t look good on most body types. You’ll look so much better with a nice casual button-down.

Mistake 8. Wearing Your Shirt Untucked

untucked shirt

Speaking of shirts – it’s time to stop letting it all hang out. When you’re young you might get away with it – but when you get older there are different expectations on you.

People expect you to understand when a shirt should be tucked in and when it should be worn untucked.

Dress shirts are designed to be tucked in. Casual button-downs CAN be worn untucked – but often look better tucked.

Shirts with a curved bottom hem are meant to be tucked in. Shirts with a straight bottom (like many polos) are meant to be untucked.

If you buy a shirt that’s made to be worn untucked – you need to know if it’s too long or too short.

Click here to discover the EXACT length of shirts that you can leave untucked.

Mistake 9. Being Obsessed With Getting A Younger Partner

young girl old man

Let’s get back to that 2018 study on online dating. It found that men focus on one thing – age. Women focus on multiple variables.

So just how obsessed are men with getting a younger partner?

In an online dating study, the most attractive age for men was 50 – the most attractive age for women was 18.

Brutal, right? But that’s what the research clearly showed.

Women are smarter. They realize: ‘If I want a mate who’s actually going to work for me and what I’m looking for – I need to look at the whole picture.’

Gentlemen – in this area you’d do well to think like a woman.

Mistake 10. Focusing Obsessively On ANY One Thing


Getting back to that first mistake – your goal isn’t to look young. Your goal is to look healthy and successful. But what does it mean to look successful?

Too many older guys are still thinking like they did in their youth – they’re focusing obsessively on one thing.

You won’t look successful if you obsess about your style and ignore the one thing you’re always wearing – your body. Or if you obsess about your health and ignore the way you present yourself.

Take a step back – it’s a bigger puzzle. It’s multiple things.

You need to focus on your health, your appearance, your style, and the full picture of how you present yourself.

Conclusion – Turning Those Mistakes Into Wins

All right, gentlemen – here’s the list of mistakes you may have been making:

  1. Trying To Look Young
  2. Still Wearing That Baseball Cap
  3. Getting Stuck In A Hair Rut
  4. Partying Like You’re 20
  5. Still Wearing Running Shoes
  6. Wearing The Wrong Jeans
  7. Still Wearing Graphic Tees
  8. Wearing Your Shirt Untucked
  9. Being Obsessed With Getting A Younger Partner
  10. Focusing Obsessively On ANY One Thing

Now it’s not always easy to follow a list of ‘don’t’s. So let’s turn these around into a list of things to DO instead:

  1. Try To Look Strong, Healthy, And Successful
  2. Upgrade Your Headwear
  3. Take Control Of Your Hair
  4. Take Care Of Your Body
  5. Upgrade Your Casual Shoes
  6. Get The Best Jeans Fit For Your Body Type
  7. Ditch Graphic Tees For Casual Button-Downs
  8. Tuck Your Shirt In
  9. Stop Chasing Girls – Start Having Relationships With Women
  10. Focus On The Whole Picture – Health, Looks, & Style 

Get these right, and you’ll notice that your age becomes an asset.

Women are attracted to you because of it, not in spite of it.

And instead of wanting to look young… you’ll find that younger men look up to you.

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How to wear your watch correctly



As much as you won’t like hearing this, you’re probably wearing your watch wrong.

It’s not your fault; you may have never been taught how to wear a watch properly. After all, there is more than one way to wear a watch.

But how do you know which way is the right way?

Don’t worry, gents; as always, I’ve got you covered. I’m here with the best way to wear your favorite timepiece properly and look as stylish as ever.

In today’s article, I’ll be covering:

  1. Origins Of The Wrist Watch
  2. What Wrist Do You Wear A Watch On?
  3. Should You Wear Your Watch Facing Inward Or Outward?
  4. The Stylish Way To Wear A Watch

#1 Origins Of The Wrist Watch

old watches

When it comes to wearing a watch correctly, it’s important to note why the wristwatch came about in the first place.

Dating back to the 1800s, the first watches modified to be worn on the wrist were primarily worn by women as accessories. One of the earliest was created by Patek Philippe as a fashion accessory.

At the start of the 20th century, watchmakers became intrigued about using a wrist-worn timepiece for men in the military. They believed it would help them tell time quickly while on the battlefield.

Watchmakers started modifying pocket watches to fit on a bracelet worn on the wrist. Men would not wear the first iteration of the modern wristwatch until well into the 20th century.

Then developed as a ‘trench watch’ for military use, the earliest wrist watches offered something the pocket watch didn’t have – convenience.

After the wristwatch became less of a fashion accessory and more of a functional tool, watchmakers would spend the next century modifying them into the modern wristwatches we enjoy today.

#2 What Wrist Do You Wear A Watch On?

man wears watch

The age-old question: what wrist to wear a watch on? The answer – it depends.

The reason it depends is that since the creation of the wristwatch, men have mostly worn their watch on their non-dominant wrist. And since most people are right-handed, you would wear your watch on your left wrist.

But this isn’t always the correct answer. You may want to wear your watch on the right wrist if you are left-handed. But you may also want to wear it on your dominant hand.

So how do you know for sure?

The most significant benefit of wearing your watch on your non-dominant hand is that you can quickly put the watch on and navigate the dial more efficiently than with your non-dominant hand.

Wearing your watch on your non-dominant hand is less likely to damage the watch as you tend to do more with your dominant hand. If you were to wear it on your dominant hand, you’re more likely to scratch or ding the watch than on your non-dominant hand.

So the rule of thumb here is to wear your watch on your non-dominant hand for the best way to navigate and protect your watch.

#3 Should You Wear Your Watch Facing Inward Or Outward?

watch facing inside

The next question is, why would a man wear his watch facing inward on his wrist instead of outward?

This trend is seen primarily in individuals who need to check their watch frequently and in the most efficient way possible. Among the many reasons you should wear a watch, one of the most common is to support you in your profession.

You will see men in the military do this, as it’s easier and prevents sun glare better than when it’s on the outside of the wrist. It also offers faster convenience to other tools on the watch in addition to the time.

Another reason you may want to wear your watch facing inward is that it can help protect your watch from scratches and dings. Again, this is just a preference.

But you’re a stylish guy looking for the best way to wear his watch. What should you do?

The answer here is to wear it facing outward, as that is the most common way to wear a wristwatch. It shows off your timepiece that you love while also still being functional.

Unless you’re in a profession where you need to check your watch quickly while managing other tasks, the best way is to have your watch facing outward. After all, you probably didn’t spend money on that beautiful timepiece to hide its character.

#4 The Stylish Way To Wear A Watch

stylish watch

Now it’s time to find out exactly how to wear a watch in the most stylish way a guy can.

Assuming you’ve selected the right size watch for your wrist, the first thing you want to do is figure out if you’ll be wearing your watch on your right or left wrist.

As mentioned above, traditionally, the watch is worn on your non-dominant wrist. So if you’re right-handed, this means wearing your watch on your left wrist. For left-handed guys, this means your right wrist.

After you figure that out, it’s quite easy. The first thing you want to do is locate your wrist bone.

You want to wear your watch face up just above your wrist bone. If done correctly, your watch should slightly peek out from under the cuffs of your shirt when wearing long sleeves.

Next, you want to tighten the strap so it’s loose enough to be comfortable. You don’t want it so loose it can spin freely around your wrist. You also don’t want it too tight, or it will feel uncomfortable, especially when you bend your wrist.

After doing this correctly, you’ll be wearing a watch in the most stylish way possible.

There you have it, gents.

Now you no longer have to worry about wearing your watch incorrectly.

There is more than one way to wear a watch, so find what’s most comfortable for you personally, and rock your favorite timepiece accordingly.

If you want to take your watch knowledge to the next level, check out this article I wrote about the difference between quartz and mechanical watches.

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Fall Capsule Wardrobe Preparation (Buy Now and Get $$$)



We’ve all been there – fall comes around, and you open your closet only to find you have nothing but polos and shorts.

So what’s a stylish guy to do? Pay a premium to build an entire fall wardrobe last minute? Sure, if you’re loaded. But not every guy is that lucky!

Don’t worry; as ever, I’ve got you covered. In today’s article, I’ll show you how to get the best bang for your buck when building your fall capsule wardrobe.

We’ll be covering:

  1. What Are The Advantages Of A Capsule Wardrobe?
  2. How Do You Build A Fall Capsule Wardrobe?
  3. Where Can You Find Deals On Fall Clothing?
  4. What Are The Best Fall Capsule Wardrobe Essentials?

#1 What Are The Advantages Of A Capsule Wardrobe?

man in closet

One of the most common headaches guys run into in their closet is having too many clothing options to choose from but not enough of the right options.

While more options aren’t bad, they can be overwhelming, especially when you rarely wear most items. This is where building a capsule wardrobe comes into play.

A capsule wardrobe is a limited selection of clothing items that complement each other. This means you can buy a smaller selection of items and create a larger number of outfits.

This is crucial to understand because most guys don’t have an unlimited budget for buying clothes. A capsule wardrobe allows you to purchase and use items frequently with little redundancy.

But where do you start in building your fall capsule wardrobe?

#2 How Do You Build A Fall Capsule Wardrobe?

fall clothing items

After you have put together the perfect capsule wardrobe, you can start to add a few fall-specific items. This is done by adding a few staple pieces that complement what you already have.

For most, fall offers mild temperatures mixed with slightly warmer temperatures.

This means that layering will be of the utmost importance because you may leave the house needing a jacket, but it might be warm enough by midday to sport only the t-shirt underneath.

Start with the basics when building your fall capsule wardrobe and add pieces accordingly.

Keep It Simple

man wearing coat

Fall is primetime for layering, so you only need a few outer layers and should focus more on the innermost layers.

You want to make sure that interchangeability is at the top of your list when it comes to your wardrobe. Everything should complement each other for ease of use.

With that said, having a few staples and adding additional items as you change seasons is essential.

For this reason, ensure you have the following items in your fall capsule wardrobe:

  • A dark three-piece suit 
  • A light-colored tweed blazer
  • A leather bomber or biker jacket
  • An overcoat (dark or light)
  • A formal button-up shirt (white)
  • 2 casual button-up shirts (flannel or chambray, you choose)
  • 2 sweaters (1 shawl, 1 crew neck)
  • 2 t-shirts (1 white, 1 black,)
  • 2 pairs of Jeans (1 dark, 1 light)
  • 2 pairs of slacks/chinos (1 dark, 1 light)
  • 2 belts (1 black, 1 brown)
  • 1 pair of black dress shoes
  • 1 pair of brown oxfords (leather or suede, you decide)
  • 1 pair of sneakers (plain white or brown)
  • 1 pair of military boots (black or brown)

When it comes to accessories like watches, scarves, or gloves, you can use what you have as most men won’t need all of them, so I won’t count them in.

#3 Where Can You Find Deals On Fall Clothing?

clothing on sale

As it is the middle of summer, fall will be approaching quickly.

Now is a great time to snag up some of last year’s sale items at department stores as they usually have sales on previous season items. By now, most men aren’t thinking about what to wear in the fall.

While you still might be able to find good deals on last year’s fall items, it’s usually the most optimal time to purchase these items after the season has ended. This is when retailers try hard to clear space and make room for the next season’s clothing.

When they do this, it is a great time to get excellent deals on items that have just gone out of season.

Another great option to buy men’s clothing is online at your favorite retailers, as they will often have sales and discounts on items they have in their online inventory but are not yet in prime season.

The most expensive items in your fall capsule wardrobe are the ones you want to focus on, as you can often save a significant amount of money out of season for them.

These big ticket items include:

  • Your dark three-piece suit and blazer
  • Overcoats and jackets
  • Dress shoes and sneakers
  • Boots

These items will be some of the most expensive items and can be found discounted out of season. Put these at the forefront of your fall capsule wardrobe search.

#4 What Are The Best Fall Capsule Wardrobe Essentials?

man shopping for clothes

You want to adhere to a few staples when building your fall capsule wardrobe.

Since fall weather can vary, layering will be essential. These few items are crucial as mainstays that can be layered with other items within your wardrobe.

For example, if you experience a rather chilly day in fall and need to wear a suit, an overcoat is essential as that outermost layer because you can simply remove it when you no longer need it.

When it comes to the concept of layering within your fall capsule wardrobe, you want to make sure you nail these following items.


man wearing overcoat

Having a good overcoat to complement your fall capsule wardrobe is crucial.

The overcoat acts as the outermost layer and will be removed whenever you go indoors. This makes for a great option as you can wear it with anything as it offers excellent versatility.

When searching for the perfect overcoat, it’s essential to know your size as they usually come in sizes of suit jackets, not regular sizing. After you’ve nailed the size, focus on color.

Dark-colored overcoats tend to be the most versatile. However, a light camel color can work as well. Stay away from patterns with overcoats as the goal is to be as versatile as possible.

Leather Jackets

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A good leather jacket goes a long way. You can choose a leather biker jacket or a leather bomber; it’s your call.

Biker jackets can be slightly harder to pull off as most of the time, they will have a larger and more aggressive collar, but they still look great.

A leather bomber jacket is an excellent option because it looks great on all body types and often has more options than biker jackets.

For color, opt for black or dark brown, as that gives you the most versatility with other items in your fall capsule wardrobe.


man wearing sweater

Sweaters are to fall, what t-shirts are for summer. This means they are a critical piece as they are season specific and offer great versatility when it comes to layering.

So how do you find the perfect sweater?

You want options, so have a couple of different collar choices to give yourself the most bang for your buck.

Having a shawl neck sweater and a crew neck sweater ensures you have all your bases covered.

Make sure you choose neutral tones such as greys, creams, and tans for color. This ensures maximum versatility with other items within your wardrobe and gives you the most options.

That’s it, gents.

To learn more about how versatile this concept of capsule wardrobes can be, check out how I turned 16 pieces of clothing into 256 outfits.

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The Best Zara Fragrances



We all know of Zara and I’m pretty sure the majority of us own at least one piece from them, but I’m not here to talk about their reasonably priced clothing, I’m here for their fragrance.

Not quite a hidden gem but I don’t feel that they vast range and high quality fragrance that they create is given enough air time, I’m about to change that. The fragrance game is massive at the moment, everyone from the big fashion houses all the way to footballers have a scent on the market and they all carry a hefty price tag, with some of the bigger hitters asking in excess of

£100 for 50ml.

Zara clearly understand the need for a great fragrance but also appreciate not everything has to be overly expensive. I’ve been lucky enough to sample my fair share over the years and wanted to share with you what I feel are some of their strongest.

Tobacco Collective 100ml – £16.99

This is one of my absolute favourites, it works perfectly as an everyday scent. The initial smell is strong and masculine but with undertones of vanilla bourbon help to soften it slightly.

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For Him 100ml – £22.99

My current daily spray, its warm, modern and intense. It just so happens to be the perfect blend of three of my favourite scents, bergamot, cardamom and sandalwood. It’s strong yet light, never over powering and leaves a wonderful trail.

Florence 100ml – £16.24

Summer calls for a fresh fragrance and I cannot recommend this highly enough, its light, fresh and citrus scent is perfectly for those warmer days. Notes of black pepper, strawberry and guaiac wood allow this scent to sit gently on the skin with offending the noses of those around you.

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