Have you ever started talking with a beautiful woman and felt…
…well, she’s not interested in you.
I know, what a blow to the ego.
What was it that turned her off?
I mean – when you made eye contact across the room she smiled at you.
Was it something you said?
Was it your breath?
Maybe she was smiling at someone else?
Gents, sparking a great conversation isn’t always easy BUT the right techniques can make it easier.
Today I’m sharing my top ten simple but powerful tips to create chemistry with women. Check them out below!
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#1 Ask Emotion-Triggering Questions
Gents, ask women questions. Sounds simple but many guys forget this in the heat of the moment.
You don’t just want to ask any question either…you want a great one that could kick off a whole evening of discussion.
Focus on emotions. Why? Women value emotional intelligence.
A 2017 study published in behavioral and social science journal SAGE Open found women have more emotional self-awareness than men.
To overcome this, you need need to make a deliberate effort to tap into her emotions.
Asking questions is an important part of this.
Imagine you are on a date:
The woman sitting opposite you mentions that she’s a nurse. Don’t make a nice (but flat) comment on how she must have done a lot of training for that.
Ask her how she felt after all the training was completed.
The problem is, it’s difficult to come up with questions on the spot so prepare some in advance. Have a few questions in your back pocket ready to go.
Here are some conversation starter questions in case you’re stuck:
- What is something about you I’d never guess in a million years?
- If you could go back in time, when would you travel to?
- What’s one thing in your life you could never give up?
- When was the last time you tried something new?
- What is the most exciting thing you’ve done this week?
- What’s one thing your parents don’t know about you?
- What’s the most impulsive thing you’ve ever done?
#2 Throw An Axe With Her
Notice I said to throw an axe with her….not at her
Gents – what I’m talking about here is going outside your comfort zone. Choose excitement!
Most men choose sedate activities for dates like going to a cinema. Is that the best situation to create a powerful bond between you and the girl you are with? No.
Leverage the power of ‘excitation transfer’: the process where the heart pumps faster from exercise or a little stress but the brain assumes the feeling comes from the person you’re with. Not the exercise.
Just bear in mind that what is exhilarating for an adrenaline junkie might nearly traumatize someone else. Use what you know about a woman to make a judgment call. Here a few examples of dates with different levels of excitement:
- Expert-level trivia night at a bar
- Trying exotic food
- Going for a scenic drive in your car/on your motorbike
- Watching a horror movie
- Riding go-karts
- Meeting for a gym workout or run
- Rock climbing
#3 Flirt With OTHER Women
This might sound counterintuitive but bear with me. This is known as the cheerleader effect.
People perceive groups as being more attractive than the sum of their individuals. You will look more attractive by associating with other attractive people.
One thing we as guys often forget is chemistry doesn’t begin when we first talk to a woman. Chemistry begins when she notices you on the other side of a room. So why not make the best first impression?
Signal that you are comfortable being in the presence of women:
- Stand up straight.
- Smile and laugh!
- Use open body language.
- Exude energy and enthusiasm.
A woman you approach will have noticed that you are popular with other women. You have proven you are someone she should get to know if she wants to have as much fun as the group you are with. Chemistry is already there between the two of you.
By the way, don’t stop doing this once you are dating someone! OK so maybe don’t ask out the mixologist in a cocktail bar while you are on a date. I don’t need to tell you that, right?
There’s nothing wrong with charming others, building rapport and creating a fun atmosphere though. Other people getting along well with you and enjoying your company sends strong positive signs to women. How to do this?
- Tell a mixologist how much you loved a cocktail they made you – where did they learn how to make it?
- When you arrive at a venue with your friends head straight into the middle of the room. You are standing where people naturally gravitate towards.
- Later in the day, move around a venue every so often. Speak to different people so you appear more dynamic and build more relationships.
#4 Skip The Formalities
In days gone by, meeting new people was often a formal occasion that began with introductions. You worked your way up from small talk to ‘big topics’ and your interests.
If you want to create chemistry then don’t get caught up in all this nonsense. An hour of small talk discussing weather won’t create that all-important spark.
Find out what cult classic films you both like. This is a much more interesting conversation that a woman will have years of opinions to draw from.
This will stimulate the production of oxytocin (also known as the ‘cuddling chemical’) in the woman you are with. It creates feelings of warmth, affection and desire for closeness. Now that’s chemistry.
Everyone has different interests but here are a few potential topics you could explore:
- What is your favorite Disney film villain?
- A book you both read in school.
- Are the two of you cat or dog people?
- The city both of you want to see on vacation.
- An album you both love listening to.
#5 Tease Her
OK now here we have a high-risk, high-reward strategy for creating chemistry.
Build a little tension by gently picking on the woman you like. Challenge her a little. This stirs emotions, fosters a feeling of closeness and creates a back-and-forth conversation.
The trick is doing it respectfully, gently and with a smile on your face.
I often talk about the science of style so here’s an equation I find helpful to think of:
PLAYFULNESS + CHALLENGE + CONFIDENCE = CHEMISTRY
How to pull this off in real life? Here are some examples:
- Give her a silly nickname.
- Challenge her to do a nerdier dance move than you.
- Stereotype her – “Uh oh, a lawyer? I’d better be careful what I say!”
- Tell her you wouldn’t get along – “You are such bad news, I don’t know if we can hang out.”
- Jokingly disagree with something she said – “I love getting a strict French waiter, they put me in my place.”
There’s a ‘push and pull’ element that’s important to these techniques. When you ‘push’ a woman away with an embarrassing nickname you need to ‘pull’ her back in again by letting her know you’re joking. You promise you won’t call her Giggles or whatever nickname you made up for the rest of your lives…or will you?
#6 Mimic Her Movements
Subconsciously signal that you are both on the same wavelength. If she expresses herself with her hands, you can make similar gestures when you speak.
The words we say are just a small part of how we interact. Body language and facial expressions are many times MORE important than our words. Don’t forget this when you are trying to build chemistry.
Doing the opposite of someone’s body language signals that you might not be into them. Don’t send mixed signals with confusing body language.
The trick is to subtly emulate what a woman does. Mimicking every move will come off as creepy.
Want some examples of female attraction in body language to look for and mimic?
- Move closer to her if she moves closer to you.
- Is she giving you a small grin or a full smile? Match her level of enthusiasm.
- See how often she nods her head while listening to you speak. Do the same back to her when she talks and makes points on topics.
- Match the frequency and size of hand movements. If the woman you are talking to is expressive then do your best to match her energy.
- If she leans in or crosses her legs then do the same.
- Order the same drink or food as her. This can be a good conversation starter as well.
#7 Take Risks
You might think that chemistry comes from a woman seeing you as a gentleman who is cool, calm and collected. Someone who is always in control.
The truth is, chemistry comes from making a genuine connection. Women want to know the real you, and that includes you being a guy that occasionally makes a mistake.
What does this mean in practice? To fast-track a connection with a girl you need to take some risks.
If you love Asian cuisine then try the new Korean BBQ restaurant in town. It doesn’t matter if the food gets a little messy. Don’t be afraid your singing voice isn’t good enough for the karaoke date I mentioned earlier.
All of this takes a little courage so I’m sharing six actionable tips to increase your confidence as a man right here. Here are some risks I challenge you to take:
- Eat food you’ve never had before.
- Do an activity that makes you short of breath.
- Introduce yourself to a group of people you haven’t spoken to before at an event.
- Learn a new skill.
- Do two or more activities back-to-back on a date.
#8 Flirt With Your Eyes
Knowing how to flirt with women using eye contact is one of the most powerful weapons in a man’s arsenal. There is a knack to using it successfully though.
Nobody likes a lingering, creepy stare. Discretion is the better part of valor when it comes to creating chemistry.
Every so often during a date, just look into her eyes slightly more intensely and longer than you normally would.
What you want is short but repeated eye contact. Let a pause in conversation linger just for one or two seconds. Enjoy taking in her beautiful eyes.
After the eye contact just continue the date as you normally would until the next authentic pause happens. That’s all there is to it, gents!
OK I make it sound so simple meanwhile you’re thinking “This is easier said than done, Antonio!” I admit this requires a little practice BUT the power you will wield once you’re the master of making smoldering eye contact is well worth it.
#9 Show Vulnerability
When you think of manly men that always get the girl who comes to mind first: James Bond, Iron Man, Arnold Schwarzenegger in any number of films?
This personality type might work in movies but in the real world you need to show some vulnerability.
Share your real personality with women. Not just the bits you think are the most macho or attractive.
An easy way of doing this is admitting you’re slightly nervous about going on a date with someone. It shows you are honest. You care. The woman you are talking to is probably nervous to go on a date too so you’re creating an instant connection.
Think about it from a woman’s perspective. It would be more worrying if you weren’t nervous because it means you don’t care!
Similarly, if you play Dungeons and Dragons at the weekend it’s better to invite your dream woman to try it with you instead of hiding it. Don’t pretend you’re ‘too cool’ for that kind of thing…only for her to find out later. What else?
- If you don’t know the answer to a question she has for you then just admit it.
- Don’t pretend that you’re too manly for a romantic film if that’s what you really love.
- Share as much as you feel comfortable about your past – sharing embarrassing anecdotes could be what connects the two of you!
#10 Get Her Excited About The Future (With YOU!)
I’m not saying to buy those theatre tickets and book that restaurant table right this second.
What should you be doing? Building a feeling of chemistry and romance in a woman’s mind by telling her all the places you can’t wait to take her.
There are no guarantees when it comes to attraction. But, the girl you are getting to know is much more likely to form a bond with you when she is being painted a picture of myriad romantic possibilities. She can start to imagine you two in a love story in her head.
If you know your local area it should be easy to say “I know a great restaurant/bar/park we can check out”. You can choose where you want to take her. If you are new to the area then a little research will have a big payoff here.
Contrast this approach in your head with not mentioning any dates or plans to her. You are forcing her to consider whether she likes you and wants to keep seeing you every step of the way. You’re almost pushing her to decide that there is no chemistry.
We have already mentioned the obvious date locations like restaurants so here a few more interesting examples to get her excited:
- Do the most tourist-y thing in your area neither of you have done.
- Try seeing a new play that has just started performing in town.
- Watch the sunrise from a local hill or mountain.
Use your intuition to gauge which of these tips are most appropriate to a given situation. A combination of these is sure to help create that spark between you and the woman of your dreams. Let’s quickly sum up:
- Ask Emotion-Triggering Questions
- Throw An Axe With Her
- Flirt With OTHER Women
- Skip The Formalities
- Tease Her
- Mimic Her Movements
- Take Risks
- Flirt With Your Eyes
- Show Vulnerability
- Get Her Excited About The Future (With YOU!)
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Published Date: Sat, 05 Jun 2021 11:55:36 +0000
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How to wear your watch correctly
As much as you won’t like hearing this, you’re probably wearing your watch wrong.
It’s not your fault; you may have never been taught how to wear a watch properly. After all, there is more than one way to wear a watch.
But how do you know which way is the right way?
Don’t worry, gents; as always, I’ve got you covered. I’m here with the best way to wear your favorite timepiece properly and look as stylish as ever.
In today’s article, I’ll be covering:
- Origins Of The Wrist Watch
- What Wrist Do You Wear A Watch On?
- Should You Wear Your Watch Facing Inward Or Outward?
- The Stylish Way To Wear A Watch
#1 Origins Of The Wrist Watch
When it comes to wearing a watch correctly, it’s important to note why the wristwatch came about in the first place.
Dating back to the 1800s, the first watches modified to be worn on the wrist were primarily worn by women as accessories. One of the earliest was created by Patek Philippe as a fashion accessory.
At the start of the 20th century, watchmakers became intrigued about using a wrist-worn timepiece for men in the military. They believed it would help them tell time quickly while on the battlefield.
Watchmakers started modifying pocket watches to fit on a bracelet worn on the wrist. Men would not wear the first iteration of the modern wristwatch until well into the 20th century.
Then developed as a ‘trench watch’ for military use, the earliest wrist watches offered something the pocket watch didn’t have – convenience.
After the wristwatch became less of a fashion accessory and more of a functional tool, watchmakers would spend the next century modifying them into the modern wristwatches we enjoy today.
#2 What Wrist Do You Wear A Watch On?
The age-old question: what wrist to wear a watch on? The answer – it depends.
The reason it depends is that since the creation of the wristwatch, men have mostly worn their watch on their non-dominant wrist. And since most people are right-handed, you would wear your watch on your left wrist.
But this isn’t always the correct answer. You may want to wear your watch on the right wrist if you are left-handed. But you may also want to wear it on your dominant hand.
So how do you know for sure?
The most significant benefit of wearing your watch on your non-dominant hand is that you can quickly put the watch on and navigate the dial more efficiently than with your non-dominant hand.
Wearing your watch on your non-dominant hand is less likely to damage the watch as you tend to do more with your dominant hand. If you were to wear it on your dominant hand, you’re more likely to scratch or ding the watch than on your non-dominant hand.
So the rule of thumb here is to wear your watch on your non-dominant hand for the best way to navigate and protect your watch.
#3 Should You Wear Your Watch Facing Inward Or Outward?
The next question is, why would a man wear his watch facing inward on his wrist instead of outward?
This trend is seen primarily in individuals who need to check their watch frequently and in the most efficient way possible. Among the many reasons you should wear a watch, one of the most common is to support you in your profession.
You will see men in the military do this, as it’s easier and prevents sun glare better than when it’s on the outside of the wrist. It also offers faster convenience to other tools on the watch in addition to the time.
Another reason you may want to wear your watch facing inward is that it can help protect your watch from scratches and dings. Again, this is just a preference.
But you’re a stylish guy looking for the best way to wear his watch. What should you do?
The answer here is to wear it facing outward, as that is the most common way to wear a wristwatch. It shows off your timepiece that you love while also still being functional.
Unless you’re in a profession where you need to check your watch quickly while managing other tasks, the best way is to have your watch facing outward. After all, you probably didn’t spend money on that beautiful timepiece to hide its character.
#4 The Stylish Way To Wear A Watch
Now it’s time to find out exactly how to wear a watch in the most stylish way a guy can.
Assuming you’ve selected the right size watch for your wrist, the first thing you want to do is figure out if you’ll be wearing your watch on your right or left wrist.
As mentioned above, traditionally, the watch is worn on your non-dominant wrist. So if you’re right-handed, this means wearing your watch on your left wrist. For left-handed guys, this means your right wrist.
After you figure that out, it’s quite easy. The first thing you want to do is locate your wrist bone.
You want to wear your watch face up just above your wrist bone. If done correctly, your watch should slightly peek out from under the cuffs of your shirt when wearing long sleeves.
Next, you want to tighten the strap so it’s loose enough to be comfortable. You don’t want it so loose it can spin freely around your wrist. You also don’t want it too tight, or it will feel uncomfortable, especially when you bend your wrist.
After doing this correctly, you’ll be wearing a watch in the most stylish way possible.
There you have it, gents.
Now you no longer have to worry about wearing your watch incorrectly.
There is more than one way to wear a watch, so find what’s most comfortable for you personally, and rock your favorite timepiece accordingly.
If you want to take your watch knowledge to the next level, check out this article I wrote about the difference between quartz and mechanical watches.
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Published Date: Sat, 30 Jul 2022 10:19:42 +0000
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Fall Capsule Wardrobe Preparation (Buy Now and Get $$$)
We’ve all been there – fall comes around, and you open your closet only to find you have nothing but polos and shorts.
So what’s a stylish guy to do? Pay a premium to build an entire fall wardrobe last minute? Sure, if you’re loaded. But not every guy is that lucky!
Don’t worry; as ever, I’ve got you covered. In today’s article, I’ll show you how to get the best bang for your buck when building your fall capsule wardrobe.
We’ll be covering:
- What Are The Advantages Of A Capsule Wardrobe?
- How Do You Build A Fall Capsule Wardrobe?
- Where Can You Find Deals On Fall Clothing?
- What Are The Best Fall Capsule Wardrobe Essentials?
#1 What Are The Advantages Of A Capsule Wardrobe?
One of the most common headaches guys run into in their closet is having too many clothing options to choose from but not enough of the right options.
While more options aren’t bad, they can be overwhelming, especially when you rarely wear most items. This is where building a capsule wardrobe comes into play.
A capsule wardrobe is a limited selection of clothing items that complement each other. This means you can buy a smaller selection of items and create a larger number of outfits.
This is crucial to understand because most guys don’t have an unlimited budget for buying clothes. A capsule wardrobe allows you to purchase and use items frequently with little redundancy.
But where do you start in building your fall capsule wardrobe?
#2 How Do You Build A Fall Capsule Wardrobe?
After you have put together the perfect capsule wardrobe, you can start to add a few fall-specific items. This is done by adding a few staple pieces that complement what you already have.
For most, fall offers mild temperatures mixed with slightly warmer temperatures.
This means that layering will be of the utmost importance because you may leave the house needing a jacket, but it might be warm enough by midday to sport only the t-shirt underneath.
Start with the basics when building your fall capsule wardrobe and add pieces accordingly.
Keep It Simple
Fall is primetime for layering, so you only need a few outer layers and should focus more on the innermost layers.
You want to make sure that interchangeability is at the top of your list when it comes to your wardrobe. Everything should complement each other for ease of use.
With that said, having a few staples and adding additional items as you change seasons is essential.
For this reason, ensure you have the following items in your fall capsule wardrobe:
- A dark three-piece suit
- A light-colored tweed blazer
- A leather bomber or biker jacket
- An overcoat (dark or light)
- A formal button-up shirt (white)
- 2 casual button-up shirts (flannel or chambray, you choose)
- 2 sweaters (1 shawl, 1 crew neck)
- 2 t-shirts (1 white, 1 black,)
- 2 pairs of Jeans (1 dark, 1 light)
- 2 pairs of slacks/chinos (1 dark, 1 light)
- 2 belts (1 black, 1 brown)
- 1 pair of black dress shoes
- 1 pair of brown oxfords (leather or suede, you decide)
- 1 pair of sneakers (plain white or brown)
- 1 pair of military boots (black or brown)
When it comes to accessories like watches, scarves, or gloves, you can use what you have as most men won’t need all of them, so I won’t count them in.
#3 Where Can You Find Deals On Fall Clothing?
As it is the middle of summer, fall will be approaching quickly.
Now is a great time to snag up some of last year’s sale items at department stores as they usually have sales on previous season items. By now, most men aren’t thinking about what to wear in the fall.
While you still might be able to find good deals on last year’s fall items, it’s usually the most optimal time to purchase these items after the season has ended. This is when retailers try hard to clear space and make room for the next season’s clothing.
When they do this, it is a great time to get excellent deals on items that have just gone out of season.
Another great option to buy men’s clothing is online at your favorite retailers, as they will often have sales and discounts on items they have in their online inventory but are not yet in prime season.
The most expensive items in your fall capsule wardrobe are the ones you want to focus on, as you can often save a significant amount of money out of season for them.
These big ticket items include:
- Your dark three-piece suit and blazer
- Overcoats and jackets
- Dress shoes and sneakers
These items will be some of the most expensive items and can be found discounted out of season. Put these at the forefront of your fall capsule wardrobe search.
#4 What Are The Best Fall Capsule Wardrobe Essentials?
You want to adhere to a few staples when building your fall capsule wardrobe.
Since fall weather can vary, layering will be essential. These few items are crucial as mainstays that can be layered with other items within your wardrobe.
For example, if you experience a rather chilly day in fall and need to wear a suit, an overcoat is essential as that outermost layer because you can simply remove it when you no longer need it.
When it comes to the concept of layering within your fall capsule wardrobe, you want to make sure you nail these following items.
Having a good overcoat to complement your fall capsule wardrobe is crucial.
The overcoat acts as the outermost layer and will be removed whenever you go indoors. This makes for a great option as you can wear it with anything as it offers excellent versatility.
When searching for the perfect overcoat, it’s essential to know your size as they usually come in sizes of suit jackets, not regular sizing. After you’ve nailed the size, focus on color.
Dark-colored overcoats tend to be the most versatile. However, a light camel color can work as well. Stay away from patterns with overcoats as the goal is to be as versatile as possible.
A good leather jacket goes a long way. You can choose a leather biker jacket or a leather bomber; it’s your call.
Biker jackets can be slightly harder to pull off as most of the time, they will have a larger and more aggressive collar, but they still look great.
A leather bomber jacket is an excellent option because it looks great on all body types and often has more options than biker jackets.
For color, opt for black or dark brown, as that gives you the most versatility with other items in your fall capsule wardrobe.
Sweaters are to fall, what t-shirts are for summer. This means they are a critical piece as they are season specific and offer great versatility when it comes to layering.
So how do you find the perfect sweater?
You want options, so have a couple of different collar choices to give yourself the most bang for your buck.
Having a shawl neck sweater and a crew neck sweater ensures you have all your bases covered.
Make sure you choose neutral tones such as greys, creams, and tans for color. This ensures maximum versatility with other items within your wardrobe and gives you the most options.
That’s it, gents.
To learn more about how versatile this concept of capsule wardrobes can be, check out how I turned 16 pieces of clothing into 256 outfits.
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Published Date: Thu, 28 Jul 2022 23:59:00 +0000
The Best Zara Fragrances
We all know of Zara and I’m pretty sure the majority of us own at least one piece from them, but I’m not here to talk about their reasonably priced clothing, I’m here for their fragrance.
Not quite a hidden gem but I don’t feel that they vast range and high quality fragrance that they create is given enough air time, I’m about to change that. The fragrance game is massive at the moment, everyone from the big fashion houses all the way to footballers have a scent on the market and they all carry a hefty price tag, with some of the bigger hitters asking in excess of
£100 for 50ml.
Zara clearly understand the need for a great fragrance but also appreciate not everything has to be overly expensive. I’ve been lucky enough to sample my fair share over the years and wanted to share with you what I feel are some of their strongest.
Tobacco Collective 100ml – £16.99
This is one of my absolute favourites, it works perfectly as an everyday scent. The initial smell is strong and masculine but with undertones of vanilla bourbon help to soften it slightly.
For Him 100ml – £22.99
My current daily spray, its warm, modern and intense. It just so happens to be the perfect blend of three of my favourite scents, bergamot, cardamom and sandalwood. It’s strong yet light, never over powering and leaves a wonderful trail.
Florence 100ml – £16.24
Summer calls for a fresh fragrance and I cannot recommend this highly enough, its light, fresh and citrus scent is perfectly for those warmer days. Notes of black pepper, strawberry and guaiac wood allow this scent to sit gently on the skin with offending the noses of those around you.
Written by Tom Loughran
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Published Date: Fri, 22 Jul 2022 09:57:00 +0000
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