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The management of a household is a difficult task. It is important to fix, maintain, and clean your home regularly. How can you keep up with these tasks to maintain your home?

My guest is an expert on this subject and can offer some insider tips that have been tested in the field. Charles MacPherson worked for two decades as a major-domo, or chief butler, in a grand house. He is also the founder of North America’s only school registered for butlers, household managers, and author of many books based on his butlering experiences, such as The Butler Speaks, A Return to Proper Etiquette and Stylish Entertaining.

Charles traces the history of domestic services and explains why, in the second half of our conversation with him, the use of servants such as a butler or maid declined during the middle of the 20th century. However, it has now made a return. Then we discuss what the average person who doesn’t have household staff can to do better manage their home. Charles suggests keeping a “butler’s book” in order to keep track of household schedules, maintenance checklists and other important information. Then we discuss how to do your house cleaning more efficiently and logically. Charles reveals his golden housekeeping rules, the task that you may have overlooked (hint: look on the side of your dishwasher door), the surprising product he uses to clean the shower, and how often to change the bedsheets.

Podcast Resources

How to clean like a manAoM article: How To Clean Like A ManAoM article: Keep Your Home in Tip Top Shape — An Incredibly Handy Checklist for Home MaintenanceThe Book of Household Management By Isabella Beeton

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Sunday Firesides: You Don’t Have the Time, Not to Take the Time


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We talk about time a lot in terms of economics. We talk about our attention and how we spend time.

We think that we are being frugal and prudent when we decide there is not enough time to complete a certain task.

In many cases we can be terrible spendthrifts.

We don’t realize that everything we own is a loan. The interest that accrues on these loans can be a hundred times worse if we do not pay them back.

You may not have the time to thoroughly check your new product. . . How will you deal with angry customers, returns and damage to your PR that follow its recall?

You may be too busy to socialize in a way that will keep your depression at bay. . . How much can you accomplish if you are unable to get up in the morning?

You may not be able to get out and exercise every day because you are too busy at work. . . How will you get yourself out of a hole you create when you are in the hospital after a heartattack?

You may not be able to fit in date nights or trips for just mom and dad. . . How will you manage to attend sessions of marriage counselling? . . Separation can be emotionally draining and bandwidth-sucking. . . Meetings with a divorce attorney?

It may seem that you do not have the time to devote to important relationships and activities in your life. Flip a few more pages in your ledger to check the numbers. There isn’t time enough in the world for you to regret it when the debt collectors call.

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Odds & Ends: May 17, 2024

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Nuobell Adjustable Dumbbells by SMRTFT. I tried out several sets of dumbbells last spring to find the one that worked best. Nuobell was the winner. One year later, they’re still my favorite dumbbells. The dumbbells are expensive, but they’re worth it for the convenience factor. To adjust the weight you simply twist the handle. Kate and I have used them several times a day and we’ve never had any problems with the quality. Buy a set and begin a full body workout at your home.

Northwoods Baseball Sleep Radio This is one of the most bizarre things I have seen online in a very long time. Northwoods Baseball Sleep Radio features radio broadcasts that are full-length of fake baseball matches. All the games that Wally McCarthy calls (look at his profile picture; he’s serious) are entirely made up. The episodes sound just like a baseball broadcast on AM/FM radio. The combination of Wally’s play-by-play comments and the low din created by the crowd, combined with slight radio static, can be a very relaxing experience.

The majority of people’s musical taste is fixed. Adam Singer highlights Spotify’s research that found our musical tastes tend to solidify between the age of 13 and 16 years old. We stop looking for new artists after that. Adam argues that getting stuck in your musical routine can lead to you missing out on some great artists. To find new artists, you need to be open-minded and have patience. Spotify’s algorithm is a good start, but only shows you music that’s similar to your favorites. You can ask your friends to recommend bands that you may not have heard of otherwise. Kate’s ability to find new music and have opinions on how to create the soundtrack to your life, even as we age, is something I admire.

The Transparency Society Byung-Hul C., a German-South Korean philosopher. He is a very interesting cat. He writes about life in our fast-paced, technologically-driven society. It’s hard to understand his prose at times, but I find it fascinating. He doesn’t give interviews and protects his privacy. The Transparency Society is a book I’ve thought a lot of. Chan criticizes the modern obsession and drive for transparency. We tend to think that more transparency can be good for reducing corruption and other issues. Transparency can also be used as a tool to control and monitor people. He also claims that transparency removes the need to trust in a relation since you can simply follow your child with an AirTag, and not have any faith that they will do and go where that they promised. Secrets have power.

Quote of the week

Tell me about your relationship to pain and I’ll tell you who you really are!

–Ernst Junger

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The James Bond Workout


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You need to be in top shape if you want to have a “license to kill”.

What did James Bond do to work out?

In the James Bond novels we learn that 007 enjoyed all kinds of physical activities, including boxing, swimming and skiing. He also played golf, which was another way he exercised.

Bond, as a former Commander of the Royal Navy Reserve incorporated into his routine some calisthenics that he had learned in the military. He may have even been inspired by the Cold War HIIT exercise 5BX.

From Russia with Love shows these influences. Fleming described a calisthenics workout that his agent did, which was topped off by a “James Bond Shower” in that book (one of the five best Bond books).

The only way to get rid of boredom was to kick yourself out of it. Bond sat on his hands, did 20 slow press-ups and lingered over each one to ensure that his muscles were not resting. As his arms began to hurt, Bond rolled onto his back, placed his hands by his sides and performed the straight leg lift until his stomach muscles screamed. After touching his toes 20 times, he got up and did arm and chest exercises, alternating with deep breathing, until he became dizzy. He was panting from the effort, so he went to the large white-tiled shower and stood under the glass cabinet for five minutes.

We’ve shown you a quick and simple bodyweight exercise. Chair dips work the chest and arms. If you like, you can create your own arm and chest exercises. If you are a spy training for the challenges of international espionage, it is highly recommended that you perform this portion and the others in a tux, with a martini and pistol at hand.

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