We have all been there, you see a beautiful woman from across a crowded bar. So, you work up the courage to go over and introduce yourself.
As a guy, there’s a lot of pressure to be suave and sophisticated, with that perfect opening line.
What you don’t realize is before you open your mouth, she has measured you up in 10 different ways.
No matter how great that line is or how awesome your clothes. Your body language can be sending messages you’re not aware of, but she certainly is.
Today we are breaking down the 10 things women notices about men in the first 10 seconds.
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Things Women Notice #1: A Signature Scent
We talk a lot about the importance of a signature scent at RMRS and for good reason, smell plays a vital role in people’s perception of you. Wearing a fragrance shows that you not only keep clean to stop smelling bad, but you take action to make sure you smell good.
Trust me, one of the first things women notice about you is how you smell.
Yet, with 100s of options out there, it can be hard to choose. Do you go for a common crowd please like Dior Sauvage or Versace Eros? Or do you go for something less common such as Thierry Mugler A*MEN?
Having a crowd-pleaser is useful as it’s not going to be offensive and you’re going to smell great. But you are also going to smell like every guy who has hit on her that night.
Going for something that smells great but is a bit more obscure, is going to make you stand out from the crowd. But it might be a fragrance that she just does not like. It is a tough call to make.
But as a wise woman once said…
“It is better to be looked over than overlooked” – Mae West
No matter which option you choose be careful not to take it too far. Excessive fragrance can be as offensive to the nose as smelling horrible.
Use a safe but moderate amount of two or three squirts should be more than enough.
If your not sure check out the infographic below for the best places to apply fragrance.
Things Women Notice #2: Perfect Posture
Your posture and your body language say more about you than you realize. Are you hunched up with crossed arms and a scowl? Do you keep your hands in your pockets and avoid eye contact? These are signals that you want to be left alone, they are often signals you don’t know your sending.
This is closed body language and it is not a great look. It makes you look weak and lacking confidence.
Instead try to adopt a more open body language, literally. Open your arms and face the person you’re talking to, make eye contact, keep your chest out and shoulders back. This lets her know that you’re confident man and that she has your undivided attention. The key to maintaining good body language and posture is to be vigilant about it. Most men don’t give their body language a second thought.
You don’t want to be “most men”. Keep your posture in your mind, and if you find yourself slipping correct it.
A great trick to maintaining good posture is to stand against a wall for 30 seconds making sure you’re stood up straight with your head, back, shoulders, buttocks, and heels touching the wall. Do this in the morning and a couple of times a day to drastically improve your posture.
Things Women Notice #3: Your Height
Another important reason for good posture is it makes you appear taller. When it comes to things women notice about men, height matters.
It is a common stereotype that women prefer taller guys, 5 minutes on Tider will show this to be true. Tons of girls have height requirements listed on their online dating profiles.
A 2013 study from the University of Turku, Finland. Found that out of 12,502 couples surveyed, in 92.5 percent of cases the man was taller than the woman, with an average height difference of 5.6 inches.
If you’re a tall guy, great you can approach most women and your height is going to benefit you.
Shorter guys, that does not mean you’re completely out of luck, but you might need to pick your target. Knowing the average height difference means you can use that as a tool. If your 5’9 then you’re going to have more success with a girl that’s 5’4 than you are a girl that’s 5’7.
If you are on the shorter side, there are also tools you can use to make yourself appear taller.
Make sure the fit of your clothes is good, baggy will make you appear wider and thus shorter. Monochrome looks draw the eyes up and down making you appear taller. Lastly never underestimate the power of a great pair of boots.
Things Women Notice #4: Stylish Boots
The right pair of shoes can make or break an outfit. If used effectively, they can also blend in or be the standout piece.
When it comes to finding something to attract women you want something classically styled that still stands out. For this, you can’t get better than a great pair of boots.
According to a 2016 study conducted by GQ Magazine:
76% of women think that casual boots are the sexiest shoes a man can wear on a first date.
Boots make you look taller and make you feel like a badass. When selecting a pair of boots look for something that’s going to stand out. A pair of leather dress boots with some brogueing are great attention-getters. Alternatively, try a pair of suede chelsea boots for that touchable quality and texture.
Things Women Notice #5: A Real Smile
A smile is a surprisingly primal thing, In primates, a smile means one thing “I am not a threat”. While we are a lot more evolved than your average chimp, we aren’t that much more evolved. When it comes to women a smile means you’re fun, relaxed, and most importantly attractive.
When you smile it’s important to show that it’s a real smile, smile big, smile with your whole face. A real genuine smile should show your teeth, raise your cheeks and cause your eyes to crinkle.
Speaking of teeth, make sure you’re keeping up with good oral hygiene, the last thing you want when talking to an attractive woman is bad breath, all they will want is for you to stop talking and to go away, don’t forget to floss gentlemen.
A man with a killer outfit and a seductive smile is bound to catch someone in a conversation!
Things Women Notice #6: The Right Accessories
The right accessories can make or break an outfit. They make a good outfit into a great one. The right watch, the perfect cufflinks, and the perfect pair of shades. Accessories are a great but subtle way of sending a message. That message could be something simple like your favorite color is blue. It could be something tacky like “I’ve got money” or it could be something profound like “I know who I am”.
The best use of accessories is to start a conversation, and the best accessories have a story. Are they cufflinks your grandfather gave you, is it the watch you bought when you started your own business. Is it the vintage tie clip that you found for a steal at a thrift store?
The right accessories not only make you more stylish but they make you more interesting too.
To learn more about what accessories you need to add to your wardrobe check out this article: 6 Accessories Modern Men Should Have
Things Women Notice #7: Your Silhouette
One of the more subtle things women notice is your silhouette. The term silhouette refers to the shape of your body while wearing clothes. Women are drawn to a very masculine silhouette – with a built-up chest, a lean torso, and strong shoulders.
That means wearing the right clothes for your body type. Wear a jacket that builds up your shoulders and chest. Consider switching to a V-neck tee or henley to help build up your chest even more.
Make sure to avoid extreme tapers or fits when it comes to trousers. Skinny jeans are not your friend they don’t display an attractive silhouette. Swap them for slim-fit or straight-leg types.
Check out this handy infographic of what jeans to wear for your body type.
Things Women Notice #8: A Leather Bag
A real leather bag sends a different message than a polyester backpack. The latter says you’re a boy in high school, the former “a man making his mark on the world”.
Not only is a leather bag a stylish and masculine accessory it’s a functional and useful tool. A classic and stylish leather bag commands respect. It adds to your credibility and gives you confidence.
With all the available options out there, what should you go for? Well, you can’t go wrong with a leather laptop bag. Less formal than a briefcase with a useful shoulder strap and still big enough to carry everything you need. A leather laptop bag will not only last you a lifetime if looked after. It will only get better with age.
The best thing about leather goods is they get better with time, leather develops a unique patina that stops it from simply being a leather bag to being “your” leather bag. Like other accessories, they are a great conversation starter. They send the message that you’re sure of who you are and what you want. That level of confidence is always attractive.
Things Women Notice #9: Your Hands
Your hands say a lot about you, more than you realize. Do you bite your nails? Are your nails clean, meticulously trimmed or are they dirty and chipped? Do you have callouses or are your hands smooth? Is your handshake firm and authoritative or soft and feeble?
All of these questions show the kind of man you are. So the real question is what can or message do you want to send? If you want to be seen as attractive then make sure your nails and properly trimmed and moisturized, especially if you have a physical job. Dirty nails and cracked skin is not attractive.
Things Women Notice #10: How You Treat Others
Last on our list is something a little more abstract than the others, but it’s even more important. Always remember the golden rule. “Treat others how you want to be treated” a real man doesn’t demand respect, he gives it and it is reciprocated back.
How you treat other people is more important than what you wear and what you say. Actions, after all, speak louder than words.
Dates are a lot like a job interview, you get a little nervous, you put on your best clothes and you try to sell yourself to someone. And just like a job interview, often it’s the little things that make the biggest impression. Did you greet them with a smile, did you hold the door open, were you polite and funny. All the qualifications in the world can’t make up for a bad first impression.
You can wear all the right clothes and accessories. You can smell great and have perfect hair. But if you don’t treat the waiter with respect, then she is going to notice and there won’t be a second date.
Things Women Notice About Men – The Last Details
As you can see women will pick up on a lot, so it’s important that your taking care of these things and continually working on self-improvement. If you want women to be interested in you, it helps to be an interesting person.
Get a hobby, something interesting that your passionate about. Go out and travel, see the world, experience different cultures and foods. Treat others with respect and listen when people are having a conversation with you.
Fixing the issues listed here will go along way but the main takeaway is this. Pay attention to the small things and the big things will take care of themselves.
This isn’t just true for attracting women, but all areas of life. Struggling at work, set a goal to achieve every day and write it down. In a month you will have a list of over 20 accomplishments. When it comes to money get on a budget and plan every penny.
When it comes to attracting women, pay attention to how you smell, dress, act, and speak. Because even if you’re not paying attention, she will be.
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Published Date: Thu, 04 Feb 2021 07:00:03 +0000
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How to wear your watch correctly
As much as you won’t like hearing this, you’re probably wearing your watch wrong.
It’s not your fault; you may have never been taught how to wear a watch properly. After all, there is more than one way to wear a watch.
But how do you know which way is the right way?
Don’t worry, gents; as always, I’ve got you covered. I’m here with the best way to wear your favorite timepiece properly and look as stylish as ever.
In today’s article, I’ll be covering:
- Origins Of The Wrist Watch
- What Wrist Do You Wear A Watch On?
- Should You Wear Your Watch Facing Inward Or Outward?
- The Stylish Way To Wear A Watch
#1 Origins Of The Wrist Watch
When it comes to wearing a watch correctly, it’s important to note why the wristwatch came about in the first place.
Dating back to the 1800s, the first watches modified to be worn on the wrist were primarily worn by women as accessories. One of the earliest was created by Patek Philippe as a fashion accessory.
At the start of the 20th century, watchmakers became intrigued about using a wrist-worn timepiece for men in the military. They believed it would help them tell time quickly while on the battlefield.
Watchmakers started modifying pocket watches to fit on a bracelet worn on the wrist. Men would not wear the first iteration of the modern wristwatch until well into the 20th century.
Then developed as a ‘trench watch’ for military use, the earliest wrist watches offered something the pocket watch didn’t have – convenience.
After the wristwatch became less of a fashion accessory and more of a functional tool, watchmakers would spend the next century modifying them into the modern wristwatches we enjoy today.
#2 What Wrist Do You Wear A Watch On?
The age-old question: what wrist to wear a watch on? The answer – it depends.
The reason it depends is that since the creation of the wristwatch, men have mostly worn their watch on their non-dominant wrist. And since most people are right-handed, you would wear your watch on your left wrist.
But this isn’t always the correct answer. You may want to wear your watch on the right wrist if you are left-handed. But you may also want to wear it on your dominant hand.
So how do you know for sure?
The most significant benefit of wearing your watch on your non-dominant hand is that you can quickly put the watch on and navigate the dial more efficiently than with your non-dominant hand.
Wearing your watch on your non-dominant hand is less likely to damage the watch as you tend to do more with your dominant hand. If you were to wear it on your dominant hand, you’re more likely to scratch or ding the watch than on your non-dominant hand.
So the rule of thumb here is to wear your watch on your non-dominant hand for the best way to navigate and protect your watch.
#3 Should You Wear Your Watch Facing Inward Or Outward?
The next question is, why would a man wear his watch facing inward on his wrist instead of outward?
This trend is seen primarily in individuals who need to check their watch frequently and in the most efficient way possible. Among the many reasons you should wear a watch, one of the most common is to support you in your profession.
You will see men in the military do this, as it’s easier and prevents sun glare better than when it’s on the outside of the wrist. It also offers faster convenience to other tools on the watch in addition to the time.
Another reason you may want to wear your watch facing inward is that it can help protect your watch from scratches and dings. Again, this is just a preference.
But you’re a stylish guy looking for the best way to wear his watch. What should you do?
The answer here is to wear it facing outward, as that is the most common way to wear a wristwatch. It shows off your timepiece that you love while also still being functional.
Unless you’re in a profession where you need to check your watch quickly while managing other tasks, the best way is to have your watch facing outward. After all, you probably didn’t spend money on that beautiful timepiece to hide its character.
#4 The Stylish Way To Wear A Watch
Now it’s time to find out exactly how to wear a watch in the most stylish way a guy can.
Assuming you’ve selected the right size watch for your wrist, the first thing you want to do is figure out if you’ll be wearing your watch on your right or left wrist.
As mentioned above, traditionally, the watch is worn on your non-dominant wrist. So if you’re right-handed, this means wearing your watch on your left wrist. For left-handed guys, this means your right wrist.
After you figure that out, it’s quite easy. The first thing you want to do is locate your wrist bone.
You want to wear your watch face up just above your wrist bone. If done correctly, your watch should slightly peek out from under the cuffs of your shirt when wearing long sleeves.
Next, you want to tighten the strap so it’s loose enough to be comfortable. You don’t want it so loose it can spin freely around your wrist. You also don’t want it too tight, or it will feel uncomfortable, especially when you bend your wrist.
After doing this correctly, you’ll be wearing a watch in the most stylish way possible.
There you have it, gents.
Now you no longer have to worry about wearing your watch incorrectly.
There is more than one way to wear a watch, so find what’s most comfortable for you personally, and rock your favorite timepiece accordingly.
If you want to take your watch knowledge to the next level, check out this article I wrote about the difference between quartz and mechanical watches.
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Published Date: Sat, 30 Jul 2022 10:19:42 +0000
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Fall Capsule Wardrobe Preparation (Buy Now and Get $$$)
We’ve all been there – fall comes around, and you open your closet only to find you have nothing but polos and shorts.
So what’s a stylish guy to do? Pay a premium to build an entire fall wardrobe last minute? Sure, if you’re loaded. But not every guy is that lucky!
Don’t worry; as ever, I’ve got you covered. In today’s article, I’ll show you how to get the best bang for your buck when building your fall capsule wardrobe.
We’ll be covering:
- What Are The Advantages Of A Capsule Wardrobe?
- How Do You Build A Fall Capsule Wardrobe?
- Where Can You Find Deals On Fall Clothing?
- What Are The Best Fall Capsule Wardrobe Essentials?
#1 What Are The Advantages Of A Capsule Wardrobe?
One of the most common headaches guys run into in their closet is having too many clothing options to choose from but not enough of the right options.
While more options aren’t bad, they can be overwhelming, especially when you rarely wear most items. This is where building a capsule wardrobe comes into play.
A capsule wardrobe is a limited selection of clothing items that complement each other. This means you can buy a smaller selection of items and create a larger number of outfits.
This is crucial to understand because most guys don’t have an unlimited budget for buying clothes. A capsule wardrobe allows you to purchase and use items frequently with little redundancy.
But where do you start in building your fall capsule wardrobe?
#2 How Do You Build A Fall Capsule Wardrobe?
After you have put together the perfect capsule wardrobe, you can start to add a few fall-specific items. This is done by adding a few staple pieces that complement what you already have.
For most, fall offers mild temperatures mixed with slightly warmer temperatures.
This means that layering will be of the utmost importance because you may leave the house needing a jacket, but it might be warm enough by midday to sport only the t-shirt underneath.
Start with the basics when building your fall capsule wardrobe and add pieces accordingly.
Keep It Simple
Fall is primetime for layering, so you only need a few outer layers and should focus more on the innermost layers.
You want to make sure that interchangeability is at the top of your list when it comes to your wardrobe. Everything should complement each other for ease of use.
With that said, having a few staples and adding additional items as you change seasons is essential.
For this reason, ensure you have the following items in your fall capsule wardrobe:
- A dark three-piece suit
- A light-colored tweed blazer
- A leather bomber or biker jacket
- An overcoat (dark or light)
- A formal button-up shirt (white)
- 2 casual button-up shirts (flannel or chambray, you choose)
- 2 sweaters (1 shawl, 1 crew neck)
- 2 t-shirts (1 white, 1 black,)
- 2 pairs of Jeans (1 dark, 1 light)
- 2 pairs of slacks/chinos (1 dark, 1 light)
- 2 belts (1 black, 1 brown)
- 1 pair of black dress shoes
- 1 pair of brown oxfords (leather or suede, you decide)
- 1 pair of sneakers (plain white or brown)
- 1 pair of military boots (black or brown)
When it comes to accessories like watches, scarves, or gloves, you can use what you have as most men won’t need all of them, so I won’t count them in.
#3 Where Can You Find Deals On Fall Clothing?
As it is the middle of summer, fall will be approaching quickly.
Now is a great time to snag up some of last year’s sale items at department stores as they usually have sales on previous season items. By now, most men aren’t thinking about what to wear in the fall.
While you still might be able to find good deals on last year’s fall items, it’s usually the most optimal time to purchase these items after the season has ended. This is when retailers try hard to clear space and make room for the next season’s clothing.
When they do this, it is a great time to get excellent deals on items that have just gone out of season.
Another great option to buy men’s clothing is online at your favorite retailers, as they will often have sales and discounts on items they have in their online inventory but are not yet in prime season.
The most expensive items in your fall capsule wardrobe are the ones you want to focus on, as you can often save a significant amount of money out of season for them.
These big ticket items include:
- Your dark three-piece suit and blazer
- Overcoats and jackets
- Dress shoes and sneakers
These items will be some of the most expensive items and can be found discounted out of season. Put these at the forefront of your fall capsule wardrobe search.
#4 What Are The Best Fall Capsule Wardrobe Essentials?
You want to adhere to a few staples when building your fall capsule wardrobe.
Since fall weather can vary, layering will be essential. These few items are crucial as mainstays that can be layered with other items within your wardrobe.
For example, if you experience a rather chilly day in fall and need to wear a suit, an overcoat is essential as that outermost layer because you can simply remove it when you no longer need it.
When it comes to the concept of layering within your fall capsule wardrobe, you want to make sure you nail these following items.
Having a good overcoat to complement your fall capsule wardrobe is crucial.
The overcoat acts as the outermost layer and will be removed whenever you go indoors. This makes for a great option as you can wear it with anything as it offers excellent versatility.
When searching for the perfect overcoat, it’s essential to know your size as they usually come in sizes of suit jackets, not regular sizing. After you’ve nailed the size, focus on color.
Dark-colored overcoats tend to be the most versatile. However, a light camel color can work as well. Stay away from patterns with overcoats as the goal is to be as versatile as possible.
A good leather jacket goes a long way. You can choose a leather biker jacket or a leather bomber; it’s your call.
Biker jackets can be slightly harder to pull off as most of the time, they will have a larger and more aggressive collar, but they still look great.
A leather bomber jacket is an excellent option because it looks great on all body types and often has more options than biker jackets.
For color, opt for black or dark brown, as that gives you the most versatility with other items in your fall capsule wardrobe.
Sweaters are to fall, what t-shirts are for summer. This means they are a critical piece as they are season specific and offer great versatility when it comes to layering.
So how do you find the perfect sweater?
You want options, so have a couple of different collar choices to give yourself the most bang for your buck.
Having a shawl neck sweater and a crew neck sweater ensures you have all your bases covered.
Make sure you choose neutral tones such as greys, creams, and tans for color. This ensures maximum versatility with other items within your wardrobe and gives you the most options.
That’s it, gents.
To learn more about how versatile this concept of capsule wardrobes can be, check out how I turned 16 pieces of clothing into 256 outfits.
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Published Date: Thu, 28 Jul 2022 23:59:00 +0000
The Best Zara Fragrances
We all know of Zara and I’m pretty sure the majority of us own at least one piece from them, but I’m not here to talk about their reasonably priced clothing, I’m here for their fragrance.
Not quite a hidden gem but I don’t feel that they vast range and high quality fragrance that they create is given enough air time, I’m about to change that. The fragrance game is massive at the moment, everyone from the big fashion houses all the way to footballers have a scent on the market and they all carry a hefty price tag, with some of the bigger hitters asking in excess of
£100 for 50ml.
Zara clearly understand the need for a great fragrance but also appreciate not everything has to be overly expensive. I’ve been lucky enough to sample my fair share over the years and wanted to share with you what I feel are some of their strongest.
Tobacco Collective 100ml – £16.99
This is one of my absolute favourites, it works perfectly as an everyday scent. The initial smell is strong and masculine but with undertones of vanilla bourbon help to soften it slightly.
For Him 100ml – £22.99
My current daily spray, its warm, modern and intense. It just so happens to be the perfect blend of three of my favourite scents, bergamot, cardamom and sandalwood. It’s strong yet light, never over powering and leaves a wonderful trail.
Florence 100ml – £16.24
Summer calls for a fresh fragrance and I cannot recommend this highly enough, its light, fresh and citrus scent is perfectly for those warmer days. Notes of black pepper, strawberry and guaiac wood allow this scent to sit gently on the skin with offending the noses of those around you.
Written by Tom Loughran
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Published Date: Fri, 22 Jul 2022 09:57:00 +0000
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