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What’s the best smelling cologne for men?

Gents – naming one single cologne as the best of all time just isn’t possible.

I’m often asked questions like this, and my answer is always the same:

‘It’s all down to your own personal opinion, my friend.’

As with most style topics – a lot of what makes cologne smell great to a man is his own personal taste.

Consequently – it can be difficult to write about the single best smelling cologne for men. If you watch my videos, you know how much I love the subject of scents. In fact, I’ve written extensively about the topic of colognes – but I’ve always struggled to pin down what I would consider to be the world’s best cologne.

I’ve tried a lot of different colognes across the years and wear different scents for different occasions. So I thought instead of trying to suggest a single, perfect scent to you – I would outline my top 10 fragrances for this time of year and let you guys decide for yourselves.

In this article, I’m making it easy for you and giving you my top 10 best smelling colognes for men to wear in the winter months.

Gents – let’s get to it.


Click here to watch – 10 Powerful Winter Fragrances That Cut Through The Cold (Power, Projection & Sillage)

Guys – before we get started here, let me share with you some awesome news. For a long time now, I’ve been researching the science behind fragrance – what I’ve found time and time again is that certain scents can change your mood and help you feel great in different situations. That’s why I’ve started my own line of colognes that I like to call Mission Fragrance – providing scents for men that can help you perform at a higher level. Focus, concentration, and presence – that’s what it’s all about, guys.

I’m bringing science to fragrance – check out this link to join our early bird customer list and get the best deals on Mission Fragrance straight out of the gate.

Tom Ford – Tobacco Vanille

First up, we have this amazing (and very wintery) men’s fragrance by Tom Ford.

Even though the name is Tobacco Vanille, take note that the smells of cinnamon and honey are far stronger and more prevalent.

Tom Ford – Tobacco Vanille

What ingredients make up this top men’s cologne?

Top notes include tobacco leaf and spicy notes. Middle notes are a blend of tonka bean, tobacco blossom, vanilla, and cacao. The base consists of dried fruits and woody notes.

This Eau de Parfum (which means it’s lighter than perfume with an 8-15% concentration) is ideal for autumn and winter nights. Tom Ford Tobacco Vanille is a versatile choice that works for both formal and casual wear.

And it’s got a beast performance – spray it correctly, and it can last on you for over 20 hours.


Dolce & Gabbana – The One for Men 

I love this men’s fragrance. When it comes to safe-bet colognes for the winter months, this pick definitely stands out.

Dolce & Gabbana The One for Men EDT is noticeably warm and sweet, but also classy and masculine at the same time.

Dolce & Gabbana – The One for Men

It’s probably due to the scents of cinnamon and vanilla that almost every woman loves. Then again, almost every woman will have smelled it before.

Top notes are namely coriander, basil, and grapefruit. Middle notes meanwhile contain ginger, orange blossom, and cardamom.

You’ll enjoy tobacco, amber, and cedar notes for the base. Performance-wise, you can expect this men’s cologne to last the whole event. And the real beauty of this fragrance is it’s ideal for all seasons except summer.


Vince Camuto – Virtu EDT

Variety is the trademark of Vince Camuto Virtu. Think of it as a bold fragrance that mixes heat and coolness pretty well into one polished, sophisticated scent. You can wear it to the office or for a dinner date.

This man’s fragrance fits for most occasions during this time of the year.

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Vince Camuto – Virtu

What makes Vince Camuto Virtu EDT so special?

It’s got aromatic top notes such as Turkish cardamom, crushed peppercorn, and fresh papyrus.

There are the middle notes of Haitian vetiver, white birch, and fresh tree moss. Base notes include Indian sandalwood, Tuscan leather, silky musk, and warm cedar.

This top men’s fragrance can be worn in the winter or early springtime. It’ll work great for your day in the office or your night out in the city. But bear in mind that since it’s an EDT, it will not last all day long (you wouldn’t describe this as a long-lasting scent).

Expect longevity of around 4-6 hours – you may need to re-apply this perfume in the afternoon if you’ve used it in the morning.


Eight & Bob – Nuit de Megève EDP

Eight & Bob only launched Nuit de Megève EDP in 2017. There’s something in the Nuit de Megève’s smoky aroma that screams seductiveness.

What’s the secret?

The scent is based on a rare aromatic plant that’s native in Chile.

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Eight & Bob – Nuit de Megève EDP

Top notes include grapefruit, petitgrain, and cloves. The middle has notes of coffee, orris, and tonka bean. Base notes are vetiver, tobacco, and musk.

It’s a product that’s probably too sultry for the office, so wear it instead for intimate or more formal situations or while going out with that special someone.

It’s got a killer performance too – often lasting 16+ hours on your skin!


Thierry Mugler – A*Men

Thierry Mugler A*Men is a classic men’s fragrance.

A great compliment generator – with this cologne you wear and experience magic made by a combination of tar and coffee.

It starts with a harsh tar note but dries down into a coffee note that’s sweet and chocolatey.

Lavender, peppermint, helional, and bergamot comprise the top notes. You also get treated with the middle notes of coffee bean, tar, and patchouli.

The base notes, though, are a pretty broad collection: tonka bean, chocolate, vanilla, caramel, and musk.

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Thierry Mugler – A*Men

Don’t be fooled by the ingredients – this fragrance is far more masculine than it sounds!

Wear A*Men on your nights out with friends or colleagues during the fall or winter. However,  be careful not overspray since it’s pretty strong.


Dior – Homme Intense

It’s gotten a lot of hype, but the Dior Homme Intense is just literally a more intense version of the Dior Homme. Therefore, it’s better for winter.

I think the original is slightly better – however, this one has its own unique benefits – especially if you want something sexier and more seductive.

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Dior – Homme Intense

Lavender makes up the top note of this product. Middles notes are namely iris, ambrette (Musk Mallow) as well as pear.

The base meanwhile contains notes of Virginia cedar and vetiver. All in all, it’s a fantastic fragrance for clubs, bars, or other evening settings during autumn and winter.


Armaf – Club de Nuit Intense for Men

I’ve heard Armaf Club de Nuit Intense for Men referred to as “the best men’s fragrance of all time”.

Many say this one smells a lot like Creed Aventus. That’s actually true, except that the Armaf Club de Nuit Intense comes at a much lower price.

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Club De Nuit Intense

The key difference comes in its top notes – they are slightly harsher and more acidic. But rest assured, if you avoid applying too much of it, it’ll get you plenty of compliments.

The top notes for this fragrance are lemon, black currant, bergamot, apple, and pineapple. Middle notes consist of rose, jasmine, and birch.

Then, the base contains notes of vanilla, ambergris, musk, and patchouli. The product suits all seasons and occasions (just like the Creed Aventus) and lasts on your skin for as long as 12 hours.


Victor And Rolf – Spicebomb

As one of the most popular colognes in the world – Spicebomb by House Victor and Rolf is a masculine, woody scent that carries heavy spice notes.

After its initial release in 2012, this cologne captured the noses of men across the globe as a ‘stand out’ fragrance – perfect for men who want to make a statement while also remaining elegant and suave.

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Viktor & Rolf – Spicebomb

The name itself holds true to the notes within it – Spicebomb smells like an explosion of exotic spices mixed in with undertones of tobacco and citric top notes.

The fragrance composition is one that is well balanced but punchy. Featuring top notes of pink pepper, elemi, bergamot, and grapefruit; middle notes of cinnamon, saffron, and paprika; and base notes of tobacco, leather, and vetiver.


Georgio Armani – Armani Code Absolut

Armani Code Absolut is one of the newest fragrances on my list. It was released in 2019 and has been a top runner ever since as a best smelling cologne for men.

Armani called upon the talents of master perfumer Antoine Maisondieu – the craftsman behind many of Burberry’s most-loved fragrances.

Starting with a kick of oriental spice and then mellowing down to vanilla, Tonka bean, and woody base – this fragrance is complex and incredibly diverse.

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Armani Code For Men

Armani Code Absolut opens with a bold oriental punch with top notes of green mandarin and apple. After half an hour or so, those middle notes will begin to come into play with scents of nutmeg, orange blossom, and carrot seeds. Then, after hours of wear, woody and vanilla base notes will remain on the skin to mellow out the fragrance’s final moments.

Ryan Reynolds also endorses it – he seems like a guy that could recognize the best smelling cologne for men, right?


Kenneth Cole – Black EDT

Think fresh, woody, and metropolitan. That’s what the final men’s fragrance on my list is all about.

A versatile product that’s as easy to wear as the color black. It works wonders for anybody as long as you don’t overspray – a telltale sign of the best smelling cologne for men.

Kenneth Cole - Black - best smelling cologne for men

Kenneth Cole – Black

You get distinct top notes of ginger, mandarin orange, basil, and water mint. Middle notes are nutmeg, incense, cedar, lotus, and exotic woods. The base offers you notes of amber, musk, violet leaf, and suede. This fragrance can be practically worn anywhere during fall or winter.

It’s a little bit too woodsy to use between April and September. But in the colder months, it’s surprisingly strong for an EDT. Expect it to last 8 hours or more on your skin.


10 Winter Colognes You Should Try in 2021

There you have it, gentlemen.

Not every man will like every single cologne I’ve mentioned in this list. That’s understandable – fragrance is a very personal thing and often simply comes down to individual tastes and style.

However, somewhere within my comprehensive study of the best smelling cologne for men – you should find one that works for you and your personal style.

No man should be content smelling ‘okay’ in a cheap body spray or soap. A man needs a signature scent to get him through the big events in his life. With that in mind, let your goal be to smell fantastic.

It will make you more respected at work, more attractive to your partner, and definitely more confident overall.

Want to find out more about the science of scents? Check out my Introduction To Fragrance, Cologne, Eau De Toilette & Perfume.

For a long time now, I’ve been researching the science behind fragrance – what I’ve found time and time again is that certain scents can change your mood and help you feel great in different situations. That’s why I’ve started my own line of colognes that I like to call Mission Fragrance – providing scents for men that can help you perform at a higher level. Focus, concentration, and presence – that’s what it’s all about, guys.I’m bringing science to fragrance – check out this link to join our early bird customer list and get the best deals on Mission Fragrance straight out of the gate.

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4 Steps To PURGE Your Wardrobe – How To Get Rid Of Clothing Clutter In Your Closet

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It’s Purge Night in your closet.

All bets are off.

All laws are suspended.

For twelve hours, only powerful clothes are safe.

Which outfits will you spare?

Which deserve to die?

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A quick look at Rotten Tomatoes will tell you that the jury’s out on whether the premise of the movie The Purge – a society kept under control by a yearly 12-hour period with no laws or emergency services – holds up to scrutiny.

But when it comes to your wardrobe, maintaining order via an annual period of merciless settling up actually makes a lot of sense.

Today, I’m going to show you how to lay your internalized “laws” and emotional hang-ups aside and embrace the purge.

Rule 1: The Purge Lasts a Scheduled, Set Length of Time

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Know when you need to purge. Sometimes it’s because a lot of your wardrobe has become worn out and you’ve been making do with it for too long. For many men, a transition to a new phase of life prompts the need for a clean-out.

If your clothes don’t reflect your age or where you are in your career, or you have a lot of things you never wear, it’s probably time.

Once you know it’s needed, mark it on your calendar. Block off a Saturday afternoon and resolve to only do that.

Set a strict time limit. That way, you’ll be less tempted to procrastinate AND less likely to dither unnecessarily about your decisions. The more time you allow yourself, the more you’ll overthink things.

Like the film’s, your purge should be annual. Marking aside time to check out your wardrobe in a deliberate way will save you time in the future – time shopping, time getting dressed, time panicking because you forgot that the shirt still hanging in your closet has a hole in it.

Subsequent purges won’t be as drastic as your first one. That’s okay. The point is, you’re keeping your wardrobe up to date, in good shape, and pared down to the essentials.

Rule 2: Authorized Weapons Only

man in hat inside the wardrobe closet

For your closet purge, your “weapons” are the questions and concepts you use to aid your decision-making. And heads up: the methods you might be thinking of – making three piles, looking only for what you literally never wear – are weak.

You want to separate the best of your wardrobe from what just doesn’t make the cut. You want a highly selective process. In your new, stylish wardrobe, every single piece should be a winner.

In his book Essentialism, Greg Mckeown presents a series of questions you might ask while cleaning out a closet, and better questions you could ask instead. He uses the analogy of de-cluttering our closet in the same way we de-clutter our lives.

But let’s focus on his closet strategy.

Don’t ask, “do I like this?” More than likely you do at least a little bit, or you wouldn’t have bought it in the first place.

Instead, ask: do I wear this often? Do I look GREAT in it? If I saw this on a store shelf today, would I buy it again at full price?

These are much more powerful questions. They’re derived from one of my men’s style equations: the style equation of value.

If it’s not a ‘hell yeah,’ then it’s a ‘no.’

Rule 3: All (Mental) Emergency Services Are Suspended

guy holding bag with clothes to trash out

That anxiety you feel when you think about getting rid of stuff is a mostly sunk-cost fallacy – the irrational belief that something you’re not using is worth holding onto because you’ve already spent money on it.

It may pay off elsewhere, but thrifty self-control won’t serve you here. Turn the “but I spent money on this!” sirens OFF for the duration of the purge.

Move fast and be brutal. Don’t let “someday” or “maybe” stop you from paring down your wardrobe. Maybe someday you’ll get back in shape, but in the meantime, it’s just taking up space (or worse, getting worn and making you look like a walking midlife crisis).

Besides, would you really want to celebrated a body transformation by wearing out-f-date clothes?

Clothes that are even slightly dated make you look cheap, and not in a cool thrift-shop hipster kind of way. Chances are, you can get along without them.

The last major category of items you’re going to get rid of are clothes fit only for the trash. Stained, worn out, and torn clothes, no matter how nice they used to be, aren’t fit to sell or donate. Toss them. They should not stay in your closet.

For more on this, check out my handy guide on when to throw away clothes.

Rule 4: No Killing of Outfits Level 10 Or Higher

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In The Purge, you’re not allowed to kill a high-ranking government official. In the Closet Purge, you’re not allowed to kill an outfit you could wear in public if you were one.

When your whole wardrobe’s potentially on the chopping block, what you really need to save are the high-quality, timeless pieces that you’ve invested in because they will never go out of style. If they fit really well (or could with a trip to the tailor) and they’re in great shape, e.g. no holes or stains, these pieces are keepers.

Also in your ‘keep’ pile should be clothes that are highly versatile and could become a component of several go-to looks. You know what you wear often and what goes with what, so if, for example, you need to turn twenty shirts into ten shirts, build your all-star team from the most frequent picks.

If you need some guidelines, check out my posts on creating an interchangeable wardrobe. The mindset of incorporating maximum versatility will help you build a minimalist wardrobe that works.

After Closet Clean Out

man looking for clothes to create interchangeable wardrobe

Once you’ve completed your purge and you’re looking at what remains – vast, empty spaces between each item; gaping holes where the clothes that didn’t make the cut once hung – you’re going to want to buy tons of new clothes right away.

Unless you literally just trashed all your pants, don’t do that.

Instead, live with the clothes you have for a little while and work out what you still need to complete your wardrobe. Make a list of what you need or want so you can shop strategically. Don’t waste time and money just because the hoarding impulse kicks in.

Create a system for getting rid of unwanted clothes in the future. Keep a bag or laundry basket for unwanted clothes near your closet or chest of drawers.

When you buy a new item to replace something, discard the old one.

When something wears out, make sure you toss it out of sight so you’re not tempted to venture out in it.

You can donate or toss your no-longer-needed basket at your next annual purge.

If your closet hasn’t been cleaned out in ages, this probably sounds daunting, but it will be well worth it for the way it streamlines your mornings – and your laundry days.

Take it one step at a time, and you’ll be left with a wardrobe that contains only great options. Why settle for less?

Click below to watch the video – 4 Steps To PURGE Your Wardrobe

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Professional TV Dancer Neil Jones announced as the face of Shakeup Cosmetics 

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TV star Neil Jones has joined male beauty brand Shakeup as their first ambassador and launches new Age Def-Eye Instant Lifting Eye Cream.

Shakeup co-founder Jake Xu says “We are delighted to welcome Neil as our very first face of the brand. He aligns perfectly with our style, vision, and brand values and of course our fans and we are thrilled to announce this new partnership”.

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In his role as ambassador, Neil will be motivating men to look and feel their best as well as working closely with Shakeup on new product development and upcoming campaigns.

Neil adds “I’m really excited to be teaming up with Shakeup. Daily demands and hectic schedules can take its toll on my skin but looking after it properly is crucial, especially in my line of work. I love the Shakeup products – they give great results with minimal effort and they’re great value. A winning combination!”

Neil’s favourite product is the NEW Age Def-Eye Instant Lifting Eye Cream, £28. Combining caffeine, squalane, shea butter, and two revolutionary trademarked ingredients – Inst’Tight and Ipeptide, it instantly tightens, refreshes, and revives tired looking eyes and minimises puffy eye bags and dark circles, fine lines, wrinkles, and crow’s feet.

Neil says, “With a new baby and busy rehearsals, it’s brilliant for helping me look like I’ve had a great night’s sleep!”

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Products are made in Britain, cruelty free, vegan friendly and PETA approved and available from and Amazon.

About Shakeup:

Shakeup was founded in 2020 by twin brothers Jake Xu and Jake Carnell-Xu. As Chinese British (born in Beijing and grew up in Bath, UK) they have been inspired by the massive rise in men’s beauty in Asia and the K-pop market. With more men than ever branching out with their beauty routines, they created Shakeup to provide affordable, innovative, and solution-driven, skin care and cosmetic products and are

on a mission to normalise men wearing make-up.

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13 Public Speaking Mistakes To Avoid In Your Presentation

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The sea of faces.

The expectant hush.

Butterflies in your stomach.

Sweaty palms.

This is the presentation of your life.

It’s going to make or break your career.

Your heart pounds as you listen to yourself drone on… watch their eyes glaze over…

And feel your career going down the drain.

Death by PowerPoint.

Today, we are going to throw you a lifeline. I have 13 public speaking mistakes for you to avoid to make sure you never fail another presentation in your life!

#1 Public Speaking Mistake: Not Knowing Your Audience

man observing audience before presentation

You need to know who you’re speaking to–in general and as individuals–to avoid losing them to confusion or giving them irrelevant information.

Ask yourself two questions: why are they here, and what do they already know?

By understanding how much your audience knows about the topic, you can avoid filler words in presentations or examples they don’t understand, but also avoid talking down to them.

Knowing what they want to find out helps you stay relevant and hold their interest.

Stand on their side of the podium for a moment. What motivates them to be there? What could you tell them that would make them glad they came?

Research who you’ll be speaking to. Knowing the age group, professions, and other demographics of your audience will help you decide what points are most likely to click.

If your audience is from a different generation, company, or background, try to get a feel for their culture so you don’t say anything that will come off as rude.

You can also use this to tailor references and humor to their taste, but understand that that’s not a substitute for genuine respect. Trendy internet slang isn’t the key to reaching an audience of high school students–showing you respect their intelligence even as you speak from an older perspective is.

#2 Not Emotionally Connecting

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There’s a reason your audience didn’t just google the info you’re telling them: they want to hear it from a person. They came to hear your human perspective and to experience the connection you can offer them

The best presentations are ones that create a deep personal connection, and one thing we all share as human beings are feelings of fear or vulnerability. If you’re willing to open up about yours, it can help people feel a stronger connection with you.

My personal example: I will, in the course of talks, sometimes talk about suicide, which is an issue that’s touched me closely in my family and in my military service. Getting people the help they need to try and prevent suicide is something I’m involved with and something that means a lot to me.

I don’t bring it up to impress people or to try and make them feel like they need to get involved, but I will mention it to show people that hey — I am a guy who does care and think about serious stuff, beyond whatever the topic of the moment is.

“The best presentations are ones that create a deep personal connection, and one thing we all share as human beings are feelings of fear or vulnerability.”

And most people are like that! They have some things they care very deeply about, or have strong feelings about, or are committed to or involved with in a serious way. Hearing about mine reminds them of theirs, and then we have a connection as real human beings.

Let them know how you feel about what you’re telling them – they’ll internalize it. Feel free to mention relevant things that you care about as examples. It helps your audience feel like they know you.

#3 Winging It

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Under-preparing is a common mistake that can ruin a presentation with tons of potential. If you’re not prepared, you can’t relax. And if you don’t relax, you’re unlikely to engage at the level that the best public speakers do.

Have a plan B in case of technical difficulties, come up with alternate examples in case your original ones don’t seem to be landing and arrive early.

Check your equipment and everything you’ll need well before it’s time to start the speech. If you can, do a run-through on-venue–a full dress rehearsal, if you will.

If you’re prepared well in advance, you can use any extra time at the beginning to talk with individuals. It’ll help your audience feel more comfortable with you.

#4 Death By Powerpoint

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Visual aids can make your speech clearer and easier to follow, but not if they’re text-heavy, hard to read, or distracting.

Most people know you shouldn’t read text straight from your PowerPoint slides, but you should be keeping text basic overall. You want it to be easy for your audience to note down or remember. Set a target of no more than 10-15 words per slide.

To use PowerPoint effectively, make sure it looks polished and be careful of busy themes and long transitions. You want to keep people’s interest on what you’re saying, not distract from it.

#5 Not Practicing Enough

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The keys to a good presentation are confidence, flexibility, engaging your audience, and knowing your stuff.

How do you get there? Practice.

The better you know your material, the more relaxed you’ll be and the more confident you’ll come across.

Start practicing at least several days in advance.

You want everything committed to long-term memory. Until you can give your speech while driving, doing the dishes, or walking through an unfamiliar conference center, you shouldn’t tell yourself you’ve “practiced enough.”

On your later run-throughs, hone the details. Test out how you want the presentation to feel–what the arc of it will be, where it’s most high-energy.

Don’t just memorize the bullet points. Match them to your tone and gestures.

#6 Not Knowing What You’re Talking About

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Obviously, you want to give your audience accurate information. They’re there to learn. But doing your homework before a presentation is important for another reason: credibility.

The audience doesn’t have to know everything about the topic to catch an outdated fact or a statistical mix-up. And if they do, they’ll wonder about the accuracy of every single thing you’re saying.

Building credibility keeps people paying attention because they know what you’re saying is useful. They feel like they can trust you to answer their questions and give them the straight talk about the topic. It goes without saying, but you want to avoid being embarrassed during the Q & A too.

If you’re tripped up by a question or need to double check a fact, it’s worse to say something wrong than it is to excuse yourself and quickly check your notes. At the end of the day, honesty is more valuable than smoothly rattling off incorrect info.

#7 No Excitement

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Especially if you’re at a conference or in an office setting where people are going to meetings regularly, they’ve probably already seen a lot of people just standing there talking.

If you can give them a fresh experience, they’ll listen more closely to your points and you’ll make an impression.

When you practice, get comfortable moving around. Don’t hide behind the podium.

Choose your anecdotes carefully, and tell them like you’d tell a story to your friends. If they’re interesting in their own right, they’ll do a way better job of illustrating your points because your audience will remember them.

Make sure the relevancy is spot-on though, or they’ll remember the story and not the point.

#8 Going On Too Long

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People naturally pay attention in bursts of 15-20 minutes. Ask yourself if you really need to talk for longer. If you do, try to divide your speech into segments with a brief pause between each one.

Almost all presentations go on for longer in front of an audience. Practice until you can do it comfortably in less than the allotted time.

If you can save someone time then you instantly become a high value man in their eyes. Worst case scenario, you keep it brief and have more time for questions afterward.

Timing your statements keeps your message interesting longer. This is as true for public speaking as it is for stand-up comedy. Figure out how to make basic points as briefly as possible, then fill in the details where you have time.

#9 Not Engaging Your Audience

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Talk about things you know your audience is going to be interested in. If you can, talk about your topic in terms of their lives specifically.

As you speak, try to stick with mostly “you” statements. You should be constantly feeding the audience’s perception that this is directly relevant to them. A close second option is using “we” statements, creating the feeling that you and the audience are a team.

If you’re presenting to a small group, like a gathering around a conference table, you can alternate meeting each person’s eyes directly. For larger groups, move your gaze around the room.

Interact with your audience as much as you can. Ask them questions. Open the floor up to brainstorming. If they’re participating, they’ll be paying attention.

#10 Not Observing Other Speakers

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Never miss an opportunity to watch other public speakers in action.

Go to talks when you’re at conferences. Watch videos like mine online. Check the bulletin boards at your local college or library for public lectures (you can learn some really weird and cool stuff from those, too).

Exposing yourself to a wide range of speakers shows you both the good and the bad of public speaking.

I got to watch Ian Cleary of Razor Social speak recently, who’s an absolute master of the craft, and I was thinking to myself “man, I’ll never be as good as this guy.”

But at the same conference I saw enough presentations that made me think “okay, I’m at least this good” that I could feel positive about my skills, and aspire to get them closer to Ian’s level by learning from him!

#11 Not Moving Around

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Whatever room you’re in, own it!

Don’t hide behind the podium.

Move around and gesture when you talk. It’s much better to look too energetic than not energetic enough.

In a lot of public speaking settings (like business meetings and conferences), people have been doing the same sit-and-listen routine for a long time. You want to offer them something that looks and feels different to get them out of their mental rut.

In one presentation that I did with John Dumas of Entrepreneur on Fire, we only had 20 people or so and a fairly small space. When we got there, we moved the chairs into a big circle and had one “hot-seat” at the center that different people took at different points in the presentation.

The change in structure really helped break up the feeling of sitting and staring at screens while someone talks from up on stage. It gave people a sense that they were there getting one-on-one advice from some guys with big successes under their belt, which made the whole experience feel very valuable to them. We got great feedback on that one.

#12 Not Utilizing the Correct Body Language

Your body language adds credibility to your speech. Avoid crossing your arms (this is a defensive gesture which puts up a barrier between you and the audience) and try to avoid fiddling with your cuffs, wallet or buttons because this makes you look nervous.

Take time to watch how the professionals do it and remember to work the room.

That means not standing in one place like a statue – you should be animated to keep your audience’s attention.

Want to learn more about body language moves that can help you gain trust? Click here to check out the 3 Secret Body Language Moves That Help You Gain Instant Trust.

#13 Not Realizing Unconscious Bad Habits

You’ll spot some bad habits as you work on your body language – things like putting your hands in your pockets or touching your face while speaking.

But I’m willing to bet you also have some bad verbal habits. Watch out for ‘filler words’. Words like:

  • Uh
  • So
  • Well
  • You know
  • Like
  • I mean
  • Anyway
  • As I was saying

These weaken the impact of what you’re saying and make you come off as unsure, unprepared, and nervous.

How to break yourself of the habit? Try making a game of it. Create a ‘filler word jar’ and drop a quarter in there every time you use a filler word. Speaking without filler words will feel odd, but you can go a long way towards breaking this habit in just one day.

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By: Antonio Centeno
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